On Respect
I spent the day reading George Washington on Leadership by Richard Brookhiser. I love to read the history, letters and thoughts of our founding fathers and their British counterparts. There were many parts of my reading I found thought provoking but two I would like to share. I was reminded of “The Rules of Civililty & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation.” Washington copied these in a penmanship exercise, they were originally compiled by Jesuits in 1595. These rules were written in the time of a class based society but respect, politeness and courtesy are never out of style, though sometimes I find these lacking in today’s inteactions.
The second is a quote by the author (pg 161)
A leader must believe that there is some best to brought out. If men are wretches, they have no best.
I would paraphrase it this way;
A teacher mush believe that there is some best to brought out. If students are thought to be wretches they have no best.
Some times when I listen to some teachers talk about their students I wonder how they ever expect them to learn if they think so little of them. Though these teachers are not common they whine about their students and speak negatively of them. They do not respect them, nor their potential.
I am certain that if we treat all with respect and honor their gifts, talents and potential we can bring out the best in all of us.
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What an inspiring post! I too love history and biographies of our past leaders. There is much gold to be mined there!
You are so right about the way that we should view our students. The teachers that really connected with me throughout my schooling are the ones who were genuinely interested in me and saw value in me.
I found this year that when I really served my students and made their learning (not my teaching) my main focus, it brought out the best in them.
My favorite teacher was the one who I had in 3rd grade, Mrs. Foster. When she prematurely passed away our community newspaper wrote a beautiful article about her. I’ll always remember a statement about her philosophy of education… “(She) made it a point to always find something she loved about each student and worked her hardest to highlight that quality in them.”
No wonder I’ve always remembered my 3rd grade year.
Thanks for such a thought provoking post. 🙂